Do you truly know your mate? There is more to knowing her than just merely knowing her habits, likes or dislikes, how well she handles the children, etc. Do you know her heart. To really know her heart, you have to know your own. So, the real question is, do you know you? Doing what you're supposed to do as a man and mate, will bring out where she is truly at in heart and the relationship.
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It is hard getting to know yourself. I feel like I'm a mixture of everything around me. This would include my upbringing, society (experiences), and of course my own personality. Can someone out there elaborate a little more about their own experience with learning about their woman and her needs? I want to be the best friend, mate, and lover for my woman. I guess I am just trying to close any gaps between us.
It's certainly good that you're trying to acknowledge her needs, but in the process, are you being true to yourself? What I mean by that is, do her needs compromise your comfort zone, beliefs, or willingness? Example: If she is into going to clubs alot, and that's not your thing, are you giving in to you don't really like doing just to please her?
Or if you both agree to separate reasonable extra-curricular activities like school, gym, book club, and she can do her's but gives you grief about your's, though it's reasonable and earlier agreed to, then that unfair compromise.
In a nut shell, sometimes knowing her, and what needs of her's that are worthy of fulfillment, may require first that you take a stand for your own personal needs. That way she will display her true character.
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