A proud father will desire to be present for every breath their child takes. From the child's first breath to your last. We need more children. Our race is moving more and more toward extinction at a steady pace. But being a father is more than just having a child. A lot of today's men didn't have the privilege of being reared with a father present. Don't repeat that cycle. If your intent is not to have a child, then take the necessary precautions to prevent pregnancy.
We are so predictable to our society. We are not expected to take care of our child. Prove society wrong. Hopefully if you father a child, you have intentions of marriage and keeping the family together. If not, take care of the child's needs - ALWAYS. If the mother gives you trouble about seeing the child, then take her to court. I repeat, take her to court. If your current woman tries to block you from supporting your child that you had in a previous relationship, then shut her down or demand the respect as a father. Stop letting these women punk you into not taking care of your responsibility. If you owe back child support, bite the bullet and make arrangements to pay it.
Keep in mind, that anything that you are supposed to do is not a sacrifice. Your child cannot father himself/herself. A woman is not a man. She cannot take the place of a man. Be a good example. Your friends, your uncle, even your father should not deter you from taking care of your seed. Your nurturing will play a critical role in how good the fruit will be. When you get home from work, spend time with that child. They can't wait to see daddy. On the weekends, forget the game sometimes - take your kid to the park to fly a kite, to a movie, to a science museum. Focus on your child and not the women who will flirt with you. And believe me, they will. Make your goal to consist of doing more for your child than you had growing up.
Brother's, our race needs you. Our survival depends on you. Our place and impact is in your hands. Our children are yours. Your wholeness as a man, in part, is granted when you can say that you were there for your child. If you make a baby, father the child.
3 comments:
More men definitely need to be active in the lives of their children. I don't ever recall a child asking to be born. Use condoms my friends as well as women protect yourselves too. Remember it takes two to tangle so be careful when you mingle. Do you like my jingle? Peace my people.
I hear your jingle. To add to your comments, brother know that you have a commitment (looooong-term) before you commitment to passing seed.
Thank you for your comment Anonymous. You are right in the fact that we as men carry the seed which creates the child. Men please let that condom be like your bible (use it).
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